Being a virgin doesn’t have much to do with it! It’s the same for everyone whether or not you’ve had sex before. “Virgin,” culturally, usually just refers to whether or not your hymen has been broken or stretched, which is usually done by a penis the first time you have sex but it can also be broken earlier from physical activity. It doesn’t make a difference. Rather than give you a play-by-play I suggest watching a little porn (you can even start with tumblr) and just do what feels best. It’s not always the same for everyone, anyway. Just make sure you’re alone and comfortable!
RJ, Brazil. May 8, 2014.
Where We Are: The Concert Film
niam walking out of the arena - (sydney)
Of course I care! I said this a while ago but in case you forgot, even though I wasn’t in high school that long ago, it’s sooooo different from when I went. I can’t imagine how hard it is for you guys to go through all the drama of high school when everyone is so interconnected with smartphones. Like when I was in high school, iPhones had just come out and the only app people had was one that made fart noises when you pushed the button. That and the light saber one. That was a huge deal. So going through everything with twitter and snapchat and kik and nudes and flappy bird is absolutely incredible and you guys don’t get nearly enough credit for it.
Some 15 year old just called me a directionator and I was like HAHAHAH IF ONLY U KNEW I WROTE HELLA SMUTTY FANFIC ON THE INTERNET LOLLLLL
people still use the term “directionator?”